Time For A Vacation

I think February is the perfect month for a vacation.  Not that our winter has been very bad this year.  But I am getting cabin fever ~ Big Time.


This time last year we were heading out to Georgia, Tybee Island to be exact.  What a great time, a time for rest, reflection and a little healing. 

One of the best things, I discovered about choosing this particular spot to vacation at, was there was not a whole lot to do.  Which is just what my family needed.  Of course, Savannah, was just 20 minutes away and there was plenty to do there.  But, we spent much time on the island.  Walking the beach, going into the small shops, taking the kids to the park and lighthouse.  Time for rest and reflection. 

In no time at all we were able to settle into the cute little 2-bedroom cottage we rented.  A stone's throw from the beach.  (Almost forgot, it came with a DISHWASHER....I've never been so excited to clean-up after my family.)

I had to explain to Tommy
why it's not a good idea to get soaked, even if it was 60 degrees.  It is still FEBRUARY.  Of course the locals thought we were crazy, but said they could always tell who is from above the Mason-Dixon line. (forgot that term from school). 

We did spend alot of time on the beach walking.  If you look closely, you'll notice the kids had taken off their shoes.  Of course, why not, it's the beach.  It was shortly after this that we were taking the kids into the shops and discovered somewhere along the 3 miles of beach Tommy had lost one of his sandals.  Gotta love Pat, he actually had a thought of going and looking for it.  We just opted to buy him a new pair.  If you have ever been on vacation at the off season, you know you can get a pair of sandals $2.00

This was only a year ago, look how much Owen has changed.

We love to travel. There are so many places we would love to see and take the kids too. But, I haven't decided whether it is better to continue going to the same places or hop all over the United States, my theory is:

after you've been there, done it, that's when the resting and vacationing really takes place. If you've only been somewhere once (Myrtle Beach, New Orleans) you tend to want to try everything and see everything. It's makes coming home a vacation.

then there are places we have been to a handful of times (Ocean City, NJ) and we can take our time (even visit with family) it's ok that we didn't go to the zoo, aquarium, Atlantic City, boardwalk, etc...

This is my much younger brother Andrew.  The kids loved playing with him.

And I think he enjoyed it too.

Grandma Debie and Grandpa

There's my Aunt Rose hiding in the corner as the boys maul Andrew.

Here's a group of new friends and old. 

So I think before we plan our vacations, we need to spend some time in prayer and really think about we want out of our vacation.  I think for the most part many of us just use the word vacation to mean going some place where we can cram as much as possible into the same 24 hours God gave us yesterday and expect to feel rejuvinated, rested, and stress-free.   Doesn't happen.

Do we want to sight-see, make it super fun for the kids (Disney World, Splash Lagoon), or do we need a rest.  Do we need to focus on our relationships with each other and God?  Either vacation is good, but we should realize that we probably can't have both.  At least not in a week's time.

I do feel strongly about family vacations.  It is one of my happiest memories growing up.  My Grandparents would take all of us, I even remember my Uncle coming one year, to Lyndsey, Ontario (Canada) for a week of fishing and we would stay at the 'Little House'.  A small cabin we rented for the week.  There would be campfire songs at night and another couple would be there year after year and we looked forward to seeing our new friends just for that week.

My children look forward to two events in the summer:  Houghton Family Camp and camping in Evangola. 

But, back to the I HAVE CABIN FEVER NOW, summer seems so far away.  Can I last that long?  Does everyone need more than just a summer vacation?  Perhaps it is just the ones that live in WNY that deserve some sunshine somewhere around Feb. or March.  I do have a week off in April, I know I am lucky to have that off (can you believe the kids are not off the same week, ugh), but with our addition still in the works, it doesn't look too realistic to be going away.

What are your favorite vacations or memories as a child on vacation?

In God's Love, sheila